You can’t really help how your heart feels.
I think there are people we run into whom we connect with because of some way our energy feels when we are with them. Its like a string or a beam that draws us to them. We have no choice – its just the way it is. You know that feeling I’m talking about. Its like knowing that person is destined to be in your life, the moment you looked at them. Not because of his/her physical beauty, but because of some unseen force that drew you to that person. It’s Ka. You can’t ignore it.
We often try desperately to deviate from this beam because the energy bond is so great it makes us uncomfortable. This deviation causes a disturbance much like that of misaligned chakras. Then arguments ensue and each person is pushed farther away from the other. Kind of like two magnets pushing away from each other.
Mother Nature nurtures complete balance. Periodically, step back and find the balance before the beam is severed and you end up acting wierd together, changing the relationship you have and forget about the important things like loving each other.
The beam needs to be stablized. Sometimes the beam changes, as our life changes. Its not our fault we deviate, we just didn’t recognize the change because we got sidetracked. We have to learn to recognize the energy disturbance for what it is and find our way back to the beam and balance. Recognizing the imbalance in one portion of the beam is vitally important. Its easy to get upset and feel rejection because of that disturbance that is felt by both. That’s where its important to step back and fend off the lobstrocities while the other finds the path back. It must be done, like it or not, and sometimes that means sacrificing your feelings. The balance in Mother Nature is too powerful to ignore or to allow emotion to get in the way. That’s the path of the beam – the connective energy.
Work to find your way back to what’s important. You’ve come this far, you must follow the beam to the tower.
Now go read the Dark Tower Series of books by Stephen King… 
